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It all began at Blessed Sacrament Church when a group of junior
high girls serving as lectors asked Father Brendan Kelly for a tour of the
sacristy. He noticed how drawn the girls were to the sacred linens – the vestments
and altar cloths. It got him thinking about how worn those linens were at his
struggling mission church, and about his grandmother’s Order of Martha sewing materials.
The 13th of 14 children, Father Kelly was born in
the southwest Chicago suburb of Oak Park. He remembers coming home from high
school to see his mother opening an old box of his Grandmother’s. Together,
they looked through patterns that his Grandma had used to make altar linens in
her Order of Martha sewing circle.
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Brendan Kelly’s Grandma had left one last purificator only
partly sewn in her box. When the young man decided to be a priest, the youngest
granddaughter on up to his mother passed the cloth around until the final seams
were sewn. Then the cloth was used to wipe the chrism oil off Father Kelly’s
hands during his ordination. The family followed tradition by burying this special
cloth, called a manuturgium, with his mother when she died.
Fast forward some years, to Father Kelly serving at Blessed
Sacrament Parish. When he gave that tour to the young lectors and saw their
interest in sacred linens, he started praying about the situation. He realized
that in hand sewing altar linens, women offered themselves at the altar, and
that sewing itself is a contemplative act. He started talking about this
theology of sewing, and girls and older women came to him saying, I don’t know
how to sew, but can I learn?
In 2008, Father Kelly contacted Extension to tell about the
first new Order of Martha Household to form in 30 years!
When staff at Extension heard the news, they were excited. By
the middle of the 20th century, Order of Martha sewing circles had
shipped nearly 400,000 sets of altar linens. But all that had come to an end
with the use of polyester and ready-made sacred cloths in church. By 2005, only
six known groups still operated.
Younger generations find joy in hand sewing. My daughter and a friend in the park. |
Father Kelly said few of the girls and women coming forward
in his parish had any sewing experience, but something was drawing them on to
learn how.
During the first junior meeting, tornado sirens blew and the
group ended by celebrating Mass with Father Kelly in the basement. At following
meetings, members worked on simple purificators. When they graduated to sewing
real linen, it was beautiful imported linen from Belgium, provided by Father and
other donors through the altar society.
One sixth grade girl asked to embroider a little baptismal
garment, saying she wanted to give back to God because He had given so much to
her.
Another member had been sexually abused by family members as
a child, and found healing in sewing the pure, white linens. She said dressing
the altar with these linens, was like dressing Jesus.
Today, Ruth Push is Vice-President of Blessed Sacrament’s
Order of Martha. It’s been hard to keep members because things happen in
people’s lives to draw them away. Also, Father Kelly now serves at another
Nebraska church. But still, an average of seven women gather monthly to sew. The
youngest of seven siblings, Ruth is a divorced mother of two grown boys and
runs a day care from her home, yet she sews at least a seam a day. Sometimes
that means taking a purificator to the laundromat and sewing while she processes
her laundry.
She asks the Lord to accept each stitch as a prayer and has
seen miracles happen, including one person becoming Catholic. Ruth has grown to
a deep sense of knowing that Jesus really is present in the Eucharist. When her
father died, she had the honor of hand sewing the corporal, purificator and
hand towel used at his funeral.
Her Order of Martha group hand-sewed and donated altar
linens for Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity Chapel at Thomas Aquinas College in Santa Paula, California. Today, they’re finishing 23 corporals and 15 purificators
for Blessed Sacrament.
Are hand crafts re-emerging? Women in our tech-saturated society are taking time to sew and knit. Photo by Marianna Bartholomew |
Father Kelly said this re-kindling of interest in the lost
art of hand sewing, was a sign of something bigger. When I got off the phone
after our first conversation, I literally did a little dance for joy. I had this
sense of the Holy Spirit moving through hidden pockets of women across our
nation, through their simple acts of hand sewing. Father told me, “These skills
were lost for a time, but not entirely lost.”
Seeing active, modern women seeking quiet … settling in to
the contemplative work of hand sewing vestments, really is a sign of a
re-kindling – and a New Springtime in the Church.
I present this piece in the new Catholic Vitamins podcast for "R-Rekindle." Also featured in that podcast are a song performed by popular singer-songwriter Simonetta and an interview with Kelly Wahlquist about the Father Michael Gaitley, MIC, Marian consecration book, 33 Days to Morning Glory.